Implementing Change In A Healthy Way

As long as you’re speaking of change in a vague way, people are all on board. We saw proof of this when President Obama was running for the highest office in the United States. His entire campaign was centered around change. Sides begin to form though once changes become specific. Up until then, everyone loved the thought of change. Lines quickly became drawn when his idea of change didn’t match up with what others had in mind.

When implementing change, it’s sexy to shake everything up, change everything all at once, and make a statement to everyone through the new policies that this is the way things are going to be from now on. But sexy isn’t always healthy.

At the time of this post, my youngest son, Micah, is four months old. He has been feeding off of milk for his entire life. My wife and I know that he will eventually be able to enjoy the pleasures of juicy steak, hearty chili, and delicious hot wings, but it would be ridiculous and certainly detrimental to his health to start feeding them to him now.

His doctor wants us to start feeding him baby food. So today, I broke out the finely pureed green beans. He hated it at first! In order to get him to eat, I had to give a small spoonful of green beans, then wash it down with the all familiar milk. Over time, Micah’s meals will get more variety and the textures more solid.

If this method makes sense for introducing change in a baby, then what about your organization?

Transitions are a very healthy way to implement lasting change. Think of them as baby steps. While there are some great things to be said about starting with a clean slate, and I’ve used that approach before, there are plenty of benefits to be found in taking baby steps.

  1. There are clear steps to the finish line. Everyone knows what is expected out of them at each phase of the plan, allowing for things to flow much smoother than if you had no plan. As a result, you know when you’re heading in the right direction and what constitutes a “win” for you and your organization.
  2. Your plan can be adjusted during implementation. Every plan has its bugs that need to be worked out. When change happens incrementally, it allows you time to think through your decision, received input from others on the team, identify the plan’s flaws, and adjust the plan on the fly.
  3. Slow change still allows for some familiarity. Veterans of organizations tend to be the slowest to adopt new changes. Each has found some source of comfort in certain characteristics of the organization. In order to embrace change, they must still be able to hold onto some since of familiarity, even if only for a short season. If change is implemented to quickly, especially in the area where they have found comfort, you will only villainies yourself in their eyes. Your goal is to get them on board with your vision.
  4. Slow change allows time for the indirectly affected parts to adjust. Think through your potential decision for a moment. Who will it immediately impact? Then who? We are often good at allowing time for those who report directly to us to adjust, but what about those in the third and fourth rings of leadership. Change in an organization is like dropping a stone in a calm pond. Ripples (plural) eventually spread throughout the entire pond. It touches everyone and everything at some point. Taking things slow allow even those who are indirectly impacted to adjust.
  5. Change becomes part of your culture. The last thing you want change to become in your organization is an event. You should be constantly trying to improve. Planning for transitions allows change to be an ever present part of your organization. It sends the message that no strategy is sacred. The vision at all costs!

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The One Thing Your Critics Can’t See

These days, it seems that the only thing you have to do to be criticized is to take a stand for something. So long as you stay with the status quo, you can enjoy a life of peacefulness on the river of complacency. But once you catch a vision of what could be, you become unsatisfied with normal. You become more and more determined that some things are worth fighting for. That’s when you make up your mind, map out a plan, and begin implementing the change necessary to make the vision a reality.

Your critics see your actions and they feel the pressing of the waves of change. They despise you for making things different. They see how your decision is affecting their environment. They see how you’re affecting their friends. They see how you react to their criticism. But the one thing your critics can’t see is your heart.

Sincerity is only seen up close. Only those with whom you share your most intimate circle of trust can see your intentions apart from your actions.

Critics are mistakenly viewed as unreasonable. Sometimes the disconnect between you and the critic is not that the critic disagrees with your vision. It’s that the critic does not view your vision from the same perspective. Would it be worth your time to share your heart with your critic? Would it help if they saw the vision with the same passion as you first saw it?

As leaders, we must not just be advocates for change, but our heart must be seen in our policies. Granted, some critics may always find opposition in the things we do. But others may be won, when we allow them close enough to see the vision in the way we see it.

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Don’t Give Up

If you’ve been praying for unsaved family members, there’s still hope. If you’re a husband or a wife who lives with a spouse that will seemingly never get it, there is still hope. If you’re a parent who is trying to raise your children to follow Christ and learn from your mistakes, there is STILL hope. It doesn’t matter what the situations look like, you can still take courage when God’s word is your source.

“…Do not be afraid of them. Remember the Lord who is great, and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your homes.”     –Nehemiah 4:14

Your ability to stay strong, to fight the good fight has nothing to do with you; nothing to do with the circumstances of your present situation. Instead, it has EVERYTHING to do with God. He is strong because we are weak. He is awesome because we are simple. The fact is that your situation turning around depends on God’s promise and your faith as evidenced by you continuing to fight for them.

How has your prayer life been for that family member that has burdened your heart? Have you continued to show them love and respect? Many loved ones that are unsaved need someone to stand in the gap for them when they are unable to connect with God on their own. Will you be that person? Will you continue to fight for your family?

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2 Types of Teenage Girls

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The Bible is such a practical book. Even in the 21st century, it speaks to the issues we face in our society. Many people never make the connection, because they overlook the parts that are harder to understand. We believe what is said in  2 Timothy 3:16-17:

“All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness that the man of God may be competent, equipped for every good work.”

With that as the basis of our study of Scripture, I wanted to take a moment to answer a question that I have received many times throughout my years in ministry and the school system. The question is usually phrased in different ways, but all parents want to know the same thing; How do I help keep my daughter’s virtue? By virtue, I would mean purity of heart, mind, and body.

Many fathers and mothers have shed many tears in my office at school and over the phone as they shared feelings of utter helplessness in stopping their daughter’s trend of bad decision making. The answer for us parents is found in the poetic pages of the Song of Solomon. You can read the actual scriptures here. Let’s examine the two types of teenage girls.

The Wall

Some girls are described in the Song of Solomon as walls. From young ages, they possess a sense of righteous independence. They don’t need a boyfriend to feel significant. They are ok with taking a stand for what’s right, even when its not the popular thing to do. These are girls that understand that what they have to offer is so valuable, it won’t be given away lightly.

These girls are emotionally stable. They are socially sturdy, mentally tough, and physically, they display their beauty modestly. These girls may very well need encouragement to make friends, start dating, etc.

The Door

These are the girls that cause their dads to bald and turn gray before their time. They subconsciously wear a sign that says “open for business”. These young ladies actually lack self confidence at deeper levels, yet they portray extreme confidence in front of their peers. They are willing to pour out their heart to anyone who will listen. They will give their body to anyone who will show them the slightest bit of interest.

So what’s the answer? In the Song of Solomon, the brothers of “The Door” say, “we will enclose her with boards of cedar”. That means that these girls should be guarded constantly. As a parent, you should make most of the decisions for this girl because she is not yet mature enough to make good decisions. Know who she is texting. Know where she is going, who is gong to be there, and how she plans on getting from point A to point B.

Doors of your house are designed to keep the wrong people out and let the right people in. While protecting your daughter, continue to teach her who the right people are.

Conclusion

The worst thing you can do as a parent, is to try to turn your door into a wall, or vice versa. Figure out which one your daughter is and work within that frame. Her personality is one of the things God gave her to glorify him. When trained properly, both the ladies who are doors and those who are walls can bring glory to God and honor to the family.


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